Sex before marriage. Living together before marriage. Two somewhat sensitive, yet critical issues that face every Christian in a relationship or desiring to be in one. In these two videos, Christian author and inspirational speaker Jefferson Bethke tackles these topics with characteristic candor and insight.

Can you have sex before marriage? Well, according to Jeff’s message, of course you CAN, but the better question is: SHOULD you? And, the ultimate question we should be asking ourselves is: “What leads to the most joy?”

In a follow up video, Jeff takes a look at the subject of living together before marriage. These days, says Jeff, it seems like it’s more and more an expected step in the progression towards marriage. But is it the RIGHT thing to do for Christian couples? Jeff backs up his answers with some surprising statistics on the topic. Check it out.

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